Sometimes you are attracted to a woman, but you are not sure if she is attracted to you.
It is not very often a girl will come right out and say to a guy, “Hey, I’m interested in you very much. Let’s go on a date!” If it does, count yourself lucky, but even in today’s liberated world, women usually leave all the hard work up to the guys to organize dating. With online dating, there are different ways to determine if that chick is into you, but let’s assume you are dating her in the flesh and looking for hints.
Here are six of the best clues.
1. Body language
A great way to tell if a girl likes you and is interested romantically is her body language. Often, this includes distracted hair twirling. If the girl you are dating cannot stop playing with her hair while she is talking to you, this is a sign that she is nervous around you, and quite possibly keen on some physical action.
Look at her posture when she is sitting. Does she lean in to listen to what you have to say, even when the acoustics are not a problem? This points to a very high level of attraction on her part towards you. Also, watch out for her leg positions if you are sitting opposite each other. Legs spread apart are an invitational pose – almost inviting you for sex. Legs crossed with one foot pointing directly at you is also a great indicator of sexual interest. The demure pose with legs together, hands on knees is, on the other hand, a sign of a lack of interest.
If she is constantly touching you – even a light and seemingly insignificant brush against your arm – this could mean she is hot for you!
2. She asks if you are on Facebook
If early on she asks about your Facebook status, then this is a great sign of her interest. This will give her an opportunity to follow up with you in a more relaxed environment with less stress. If your new date also asks for your private email, then get ready for some prolonged contact with this girl. She may be even thinking of sending you some naughty pictures, depending on how you fare with her other subconscious displays of attraction to you.
3. She offers to pay for a date
When a girl wants to pay for the date, this is a great indicator. She is willing to take the financial burden and make a huge impression on you. If this is a first date and she gets out her purse, then she is into you big time.
4. Giggles at inappropriate moments
If you are telling her a serious or sad story on your date and she laughs at the wrong moment, she is probably so engrossed in looking into your eyes that she cannot concentrate on what you have to say. She wants you bad!
5. Decreases personal space to zero
Most of us like to keep a minimum physical distance between ourselves and others (personal space). When she narrows this gap to zero, and she is virtually on top of you, then you are clearly onto a winner with this girl. On the other hand, if you try and do the same and she keeps backing away, she is definitely not into you.
6. Lets you drive her home in her car
When a girl trusts you with her car, there is a great chance she will trust you with her body! Be gentle with both on your date, and you will soon find out whether or not she is attracted to you.